A fellow lindy hopper asked me if it was hard to date a non-dancer. The swing scene, at least my local scene, is chockablock full of singles. The man behind the major swing organization in town says he likes it that way because once people start marrying off, they stop coming to the dances. Most hardcore lindy hoppers will not date a non-dancer. The few that do, stop dancing as often, if not altogether. Is it hard for someone, a previously self-described lindy-addict, to date a non-dancer? No. It's not hard for me. "Of course," I explained to my friend, "I would give up dancing for this guy." There was a pause on the other end of the line followed by an "Oh wow!" I think many of my friends would be like ...oookay. So you'd give up dancing. Whatev. It's just dancing. But, for those who refer to themselves as lindy hoppers, the dance becomes so thoroughly part of your identity that to give it up is completely unthinkable. Until priorities chang...